Sex is great when you are young and have raging hormones. Sex in middle age however, is definitely something different. First off, like most things in life, you have probably learned to savor it and hopefully make it last a long time.
Second, you have hopefully learned how to cook well and know what ingredients need to be (or optionally can be) added to sex that make it an even greater experience for all parties involved.
There is so much kink in my sex that I think it's really the other way around. There's sex in my kink. There's very little I won't do with another consenting adult. I do have limits, but my kink partners know what they are well ahead of the game. Limits involve, but are not limited to: anything having to do with animals, children and waste products of biological human and animal origin. That's right, I refuse to have cow's milk poured over me during play. Oh yeah I forgot, you cannot restrict my breathing in any way (I have medical issues around this one).
There is such a thing as making love though and making love does not always involve kink. I have to say though that as a life long lover and explorer of kink, even making love still has some kink involved. For me, kink seldom involves the same feelings as making love. For me making love is exactly that: the process of making "love". Pure kink does have emotions involved, but they don't usually come close to the ones I am feeling when I am showing someone how deeply I feel passionate love for them. Making love is much like making art or music to me. It's something I seldom get to do. Maybe because when making love there is a vulnerability there that, if you are being real, is hard to hide. The same can be said of a D/s relationship, lots of vulnerability going on there.
I personally tend to be guarded period. Which is probably why I enojoy a good D/s relationship. I can let my guard down, be vulnerable and turn around after play and not have to marry that person.
But that's just me, what's your story Gertrude?
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