I can never emphasize enough the importance of letting your heart love another utterly and completely.
I was having this conversation with a friend last night and he thinks he has found the love of his life, the woman of his dreams. He's worried he is going to fuck up some how. So I gave him my sage advice.
Love with an open heart. Be as honest as you can allow yourself to be with your feelings. If you feel it, don't shut it off and hold it inside. Let her know the depths of your being, show her your real heart.
Sex is important because it is your opportunity to show her with the whole of your passion just how much you do love her. Sex however is not nearly as important as keeping your heart open even when she has done something that has hurt you.
Live in the moment, love like there is no tomorrow. Let all that is in your being flow in and through her. Let her touch your heart. Love her unconditionally, never build boundaries that put limits on who she is as a person. In other words, don't judge or condemn her for anything.
Let every moment be joyous together. Don't be jealous or possessive. Allow her the freedom to be all of who she is. Encourage her in all that she strives to become or do. Love her in the way you want someone else to love you.
Most of all, love yourself first. In loving yourself, you are able to love others more deeply and unconditionally. Seek your own connection with yourself and the universe. Awaken spiritually first and all these things will flow to you, including your great love, your soul mate.
And remember, as fabulous as sex might be, taking time to make incredible passionate love once in a while is the best sex ever.
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